Let’s face it—between work, screens, stress, and schedules, it’s easy for even the strongest couples to slip into “just roommates” mode. 😶
But emotional closeness doesn’t disappear overnight. It fades slowly—unless we keep checking in. That’s where these weekly intimacy questions come in. They’re short, simple, and surprisingly powerful.
Pick a quiet evening. Light a candle. Put your phones away. Ask these questions—not to fix anything, but to listen, to be seen, and to reconnect. 🤍
1. What’s something you appreciated about me this week?
Gratitude builds warmth. Hearing what stood out can make small acts feel meaningful.
2. Did anything make you feel disconnected from me?
Ask gently. This isn’t about blame—it’s about understanding and repair.
3. What’s one thing I could do next week to support you better?
Simple, clear, and actionable. It keeps love practical, not just poetic.
4. What was a high point in your week?
Sharing joys builds closeness—and might give you something to celebrate together.
5. What stressed you out this week?
This gives space to be heard, not fixed. Listening = love.
6. How are you feeling in our relationship lately?
Soft check-ins help catch emotional drift before it turns into distance.
7. Is there anything we’ve been avoiding?
A chance to open the door gently—without surprise arguments.
8. What kind of touch felt good this week?
Great for keeping physical intimacy present and tuned-in to each other’s needs.
9. Do you feel seen by me?
Simple. Huge. Vulnerable. Important.
10. What’s one thing you’d love us to do together soon?
This adds future focus—something fun to look forward to as a team. ✨
Final Thought: Love thrives in safe, consistent spaces. These questions aren’t magical—but asking them regularly? That’s the real magic. 🪄
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